Life isn’t a matter of milestones but of moments.
I recently completed a three day hike. Not a long hike compared to others I’ve done, but it’s one I’ve long wanted to do. When I first visited the Australian Blue Mountains, about ten years ago, and fell in love with the area I declared that one day I would walk the Six Foot Track. The 45 kilometre walk is both incredibly scenic and historic. It was constructed in the 1880’s as a bridle track from Katoomba to the Jenolan Caves and it is indeed six foot wide to, originally, allow two laden horses to pass.
What’s this got do with a Love List? Well, when I completed the walk I shared a photo of celebration with friends and commented that I’d ticked another item off my bucket list. A wonderful friend of mine shared my delight and suggested that I call it a Love List instead of a bucket list.
“What a great idea” I thought. A bucket list focuses on the inevitable end of one’s life (which is not in itself a bad thing of course but the connotations are somewhat negative and conjures a sense of quiet desperation) whereas a Love List encapsulates life and energy and the present. A Love List is more of a celebration of living rather than trying to beat the clock. I like it!
I have a list of places to go, challenges to complete as well as fun activities I’d like to achieve sometime in the near future. From that larger list I created a smaller list to focus on this year. Reflecting on my 2014 Love List this Easter season I realise I have officially achieved several of those goals and I am delighted. Many of the items on my list are small, fun things such as visit my Nana every three to four weeks, take a photo a day and practice yoga three times a week. Other items require a little more planning such as visit Mon Repos, near Bundaberg, to see the Turtles laying their eggs. Something I’ve been meaning to do since I lived there 20 odd years ago.
Completing the Six Foot Track walk was one of those larger items on my list. As I was travelling back from the Jenolan Caves to Blackheath after the walk it hit me that I’d just met a long held dream. I had actually completed something I’d spoken about for years. I realise it isn’t climbing Everest or finding a cure for cancer but this small achievement left me momentarily speechless and full of emotion. Now, I feel a great sense of satisfaction and I’m enjoying the warm after glow of achieving a dream. I’m allowing myself time to savour the moment before deciding on the next “big” adventure I’ll manifest.
Having a Love List gives me something out of the ordinary to work toward, to look forward to and to dream about. It keeps me motivated, excited and full of anticipation. It’s a way for me to celebrate life. Do you have Love List? I’d like to hear one or two of the dreams you have on yours.
Committed to creating more life adventures,